The story of how Anastasiya and myself actually met is quite interesting.We see it more as fate and destiny. It started with my own search for a potential future relationship. I was frustrated with the mentality of north American woman. I am a little old school and wished a lady that could truly be my soul mate. I want a relationship where the two join as a team and become a combined entity. The average north American woman is now very independent and this total bond seems impossible. It seems love and devotion are no longer the main elements a woman here wants.
I searched my thoughts and tried to figure out where I would find a woman like I desired. I am Ukrainian by heritage. I searched my memories of childhood and discovered that my aunts and cousins , possessed the qualities ,I was seeking in a lady. Thus I decided to search my roots and tried meeting ladies from the Ukraine.
Of coarse being in north America made this difficult. I am not a rich man so to fly over there to try to meet one was not an option. I did like so many others do now. I began my search on line. To my surprise I found that the average Ukrainian lady,still possessed the qualities I was seeking in a lady.
I was also very surprised at the level of interest the woman there displayed towards me. I am just an average guy in my mid 40's. I began receiving over 30 emails a day plus as many chat requests.All from very attractive and interesting ladies. They ranged from 18-50 years old. One more thing that surprised me , was that Ukrainian woman mature much sooner than here. They are mentally ready for marriage and family at a much younger age than most woman here. Plus they take marriage and family seriously. They will work hard at the marriage.
So I did narrow it down to one lady I wished to meet in live. We had chatted for several months prior and I saved the money to go visit her. As it turned out our meeting was not a success( We had gone from meeting on line to discussing love and life in a short while. We didn't take enough time learning if we were even compatible. Thus our meeting did not work out.
It was only a couple days into our meeting ,that we discovered it was not going to work for us. Now I was in a strange country alone for another several days. I went back on line and contacted a lady friend I had previously chatted with there. She was away on a trip so we could not visit at that time.She did although inform me that her best friend was interested in me and would like meeting.
It was the next morning I met my lovely Anastasiya:) The moment we met and we looked into each others eyes, was the beginning of our love. It has grown and gets stronger each day. We now plan to marry and start our lives together.
So that is how we met.
Sunday, February 22, 2009
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