Thursday, March 26, 2009

Why Internet Date?

Hi again Thanks for popping by and viewing my blog.
This blog is about my future wife.
As I did not truly meet my lovely lady Anastasiya via Internet. It was although,the result of Internet meeting and dating that brought us together. So I thought I would share a bit about my experiences with this venue.
So I guess I'll start with my reason for choosing Internet meeting/dating. One reason I started seeking my lady on line was my geography. I live in a very small town. It is a working town so there are very few single ladies here. Being a small town I pretty much know all of them also.Of the available single ladies in my town ,none are what I seek in a lady.
Maybe one could call me to fussy or to high in my expectations! I feel it is neither. I think I am just a little to old fashioned and the average North American lady is very modern and westernized in their thinking.
It seems the average lady here puts more credence on money and possessions than love. It is very obvious to me with my vehicles. A lady that sees me driving my Mazda pickup will barely notice me.Yet when I pull up in one of my BMW's suddenly I'm worthy of a pleasant smile and a double take. The same true when meeting for a first date. A lady here will act a lot more pleasant towards me when I pick her up in a fancy car. The attitude is even more pleasant if she is aware that I own a business and a few properties.
So that is part of why I call myself old fashioned. I still want a lady that loves me, not my stuff! Don't get me wrong ; I do realise money plays an important part in every ones life and life style. I just don't wish money to be the basis of my relationship.
I also believe a lady should care for her appearance and health. These days it seems the average lady in North America (men also)is over weight .This is probably because of diet. Every one is convinced they are to busy, so it's easier to eat fast foods or pre prepared foods from the grocery store . Fewer and fewer can even cook, let alone cook a healthy meal! One will find that eating healthier will increase energy levels and all those daily tasks will go easier and faster, thus freeing up time to make that healthy meal. Plus the extra weight would would be easier to loose.
The mentality towards marriage has also changed drastically in North America. The old vow of "Till death do us part" is very rarely honored. Most people are not willing to devote the time,work and effort needed to sustain a successful relationship or marriage. It was not that long ago that one was socially shunned for being divorced. The attitude today is " oh so was that only your first marriage?"
So with all this said, those were my reasons for seeking my lady abroad.

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